Every one of us has secret sorrows which no one knows about; and often we call someone cold and unemotional when he/she is simply sad. Do not prejudge others. You have no idea how they hurt. As Tom Petty wrote, “You don’t know how it feels to be me.” Instead, lean into them and value them. Who knows, they may one day let you into that place that none other has entered. And then, with this new-found friend, we can discover the path to hope and healing!